Everyone knows that raising a child can be difficult, and there are so many things that must be done to raise healthy and happy children. One of the most important things any parent or guardian can do for their child is to help them become more emotionally secure. Doing so will help them to navigate the challenges of childhood and adulthood with relative ease and confidence. Here are three reasons why this is so important.
Impact on Behavior
Emotionally secure children are kids who know that they do not have to act out or misbehave in order to receive love, attention, and affection. They can clearly communicate their needs and wants and have developed the vocabulary to describe how they feel at any given moment. They also know that they can speak with their loved ones in order to share how they feel or seek comfort. These skills come with being raised in an emotionally secure way. As such, helping children become emotionally secure can impact their behavior by teaching them positive ways to behave and ensuring that negative behavioral patterns are minimized or eliminated.
Develop Healthy Relationships
An emotionally secure child is less vulnerable to abuse and more likely to seek out and develop healthy relationships with those around them. This is because they've learned how they should be treated by friends and family. They know what a good relationship is and can identify the warning signs of a bad one. Because of this, they can recognize abusive or negative people and know when to draw closer to a person or when to pull away.
Prepare Children for Challenges
As much as you'd like to, you cannot create a world for your kids where they will never face any problems. That's why teaching them resilience, which is the ability to face challenges and “weather the storm,” is so important. Emotionally secure children know that a setback is not the end of the world, and they have the coping skills necessary to allow themselves to get through a challenge and become stronger for it. Emotional security is the foundation for many positive attributes that we want our kids to learn. That's why it is so important that we teach them how to be secure in their emotions, how to express them in a positive way, and how to work with their emotions to become better people as they grow up.Looking for a great way to spend some one-on-one time with your child? Creating lasting memories is easy with storieChild.